Jealousy

Posted by on May 20, 2012 No comments

Jealousy typically refers to thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, friendship, or love. Jealousy often consists of a combination of emotions such as anger, sadness, terror, paranoia and/or disgust. It can become powerful and all consuming and may be the justifier for various kinds of control and abuse.

Envy is an emotion that occurs when a person lacks another’s (perceived) superior quality, achievement, or possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it. Envy can also derive from a sense of low self-esteem that results from an upward social comparison threatening a person’s self image: another person has something that the envier considers to be important to have. If the other person is perceived to be similar to the envier, the aroused envy will be particularly intense, because it signals to the envier that it just as well could have been he or she who had the desired object.

So essentially jealousy is the fear of losing something perceived to already be owned and envy the desire to own something you do not possess.Duration : 0:4:53
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Your Questions About Dirty Questions To Consult Your Boyfriend Girlfriend

Posted by on May 18, 2012 No comments

Susan asks…Why does everyone take Life so serously?http://www.encyclopediadramatica.com/Serious_business

It seems like everyone on Yahoo!Answers takes everything way to seriously (Judging by the hate mail I get). Do you all honestly expect serious answers when we see the following questions repeated hundreds of times a day?

Such questions:

-Has Judas Rabbi raped your dog yet?
-My cat is sick, what do I do?
-My dog is sick, what do I do?
-I’m sick, what the fuck is wrong with me?
-Should I ask this boy/girl/republican/pelican out?
-My boyfriend/girlfriend/republican/pelican is cheating on me, what do I do?
-I’m cheating on my boyfriend/girlfriend/republican/pelican, am I a dirty whore?
-I have a problem with my router. (Note that this is not a question.)
-I had unprotected sex, could I be pregnate?
-any1 wnat to be my freind?
-MY MOM FUCKING HATES ME WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!?????????????????????????
-How is babby formed?
-What are the points for?
-Can someone please help me with thes math questions?
When I see these – or other common question – I answer them in the most offensive way possible.

Lighten up people – Don’t take life so seriously, no one gets out alive.
HMFfan: Yes, I encourage you to answer in the most offensive way possible, such Answers give a good laugh to those of us that use Y!A and also have a sense of Humor.Stop Being Jealous answers:Because their intake of Stella is limited.Donald asks…Question about sex. How many people is too many?So I had a ex that slept with over 300 people and at the time I was a virgin. To be honest ever since she told me I lost a lot of respect and trust for pa href=http://www.stopjealousy.com/your-questions-about-dirty-questions-to-ask-your-boyfriend-girlfriend/ target=_blankYour Questions About Dirty Questions To Consult Your Boyfriend Girlfriend/a/p

I Have Self Esteem Problems Plus I Get Jealous Very Easy While I Hide It From Others?

Posted by on May 13, 2012 No comments

I try hard not to put myself in situations where i will not get jealous which hinders my social life sometimes.I have a boyfriend and we have been together over two months, not so long but things are going so well. I am going out for my roomates birthday soon and he is invited as well. My roommate and her friends are younger and very very good looking and I am scared he will think im not good enough or take a liking to one of them. they are nice people but flirts. I would rather not be in this situation but there is nothing I can do to get out of it without just being a jerk. How to I deal with my feelings about this? I am almost 30 and he is older than me. I know I need to stop but its so hard for me to get over this stuff. He never even hung out with my roommate because I feel inadequate.
I feel as if I wrote this question myself. I’ve been that way for 20 years. I think it’s hereditary. My mother was jealous with my dad my whole life and we saw it all the time. I just recently stopped getting jealous 95% of the time. I’m not perfect. It caused a lot of problems in our relationship and I’m wondering how he put up with me for so long. Then one day the light just went off. I did, however start taking anti-depressents. That might’ve helped with my self-esteem. I still can’t stand my body. But I do love myself more. You need some help. Tell you family doctor how you feel. Believe me, it will be worth. We went out in public around young women at the mall not long ago. And we hang out with our neighbors, something I never thought possible after 2 and a half years of hiding from the beaufitul women of the world, which of course, I thought I wasn’t. You owe it to yourself to build up some self-esteem. If it’s only been 2 pa href=http://www.stopjealousy.com/i-have-self-esteem-problems-and-i-get-jealous-very-easy-although-i-hide-it-from-others/ target=_blankI Have Self Esteem Problems Plus I Get Jealous Very Easy While I Hide It From Others?/a/p

Can I Stop Existence So Envious??

Posted by on May 12, 2012 No comments

There’s guy he’s 18 years old and he is one of the sweetest most caring guys that you will ever meet. He is such a gentleman and we have so much in common. Problem is we live 4 hours from each other. Last time i saw was like 3 weeks ago when my family and i went to go attend my uncle’s wakekeeping. I started crushing on him last summer when we visited. And ever since I saw him again I have not gone one day without thinking about him and wondering if he’s thinking about me. I like this guy so much it drives me crazy. I didn’t know i could even like a guy so much til i met him. He’s in my dreams, my thoughts, and my heart.

Because he is so nice he also has a lot of female friends and that drives me crazy!! I know i can trust him, but it’s the girls I’m worried about. I hate the fact that i’m so jealous of these other girls that get to see him everyday. We’re not even together, but yet I can see myself being with him. We’re just close friends right now. I miss him all the time. Advice?
I need some serious advice before i do something that I’ll probably regret!!
.It’is one of th 7 deadly sins.Also its a self induced emotionthat is destructive,not only to yourself but to the people you profess to love.You must relax andbe open-minded about your personal life and affairs pa href=http://www.stopjealousy.com/how-do-i-stop-being-so-jealous/ target=_blankCan I Stop Existence So Envious??/a/p